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Possessing Love

Submitted by Pravs J on Monday, 24 August 200938 Comments

Possessing Love

The greatest mistake in Love is trying to possess it.
It will spill out of hand just like water.

Love will retrieve from you if you demand, if you expect.
Love is meant to be free; you cannot change its nature.

If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.
Give, but don’t expect. Advise, but don’t order.
Ask, but never demand.

Pravs J - Possessing Love

Pravs J - Possessing Love

38 Comments »

  • Hilvi said:

    hmmmm…..

  • Elegant Chic said:

    The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in. :)

  • Lisa said:

    Love is the only feelings which we can not have any rule about it!!

  • Gipmai said:

    “Love many and set them free. The one that returns is yours.” One of my best girl friends told me once.

  • bat said:

    I agree….”Love is meant to be free; you cannot change its nature.”

    ‘If you don’t love yourself how can you give Love to others’ that’s what I learnt.

    Thank you so much.

  • sona said:

    Excellent
    I can say all the male gender should follow this,unknowingly they have tendency of possessing their love.

  • amit bobhate said:

    I just think i got a bitter taste of live in my lyf. so definitation of love for me is based on wat i experianced -

    “Love is can be a heaven if we get rght Love if we dont than Love can be worst than Hell” I Loved some 1 so much bt wat i got is nothing more than pain.

    But Still Love is beautifull. that love which my WIfe has for me is beautiful.

  • Shafath said:

    Good one
    Hi, sona,

    The problem with the male gender is, they love so madly that in turns becomes a possessiveness, but please think from male point of view, whom else we can show our possessiveness,

    Not on all girls, but the girl whom we think as our life, our destination, our everything,
    Then whats wrong in expecting from them…

    We dont expect all girls to SMS us or call us,
    We dont order any other girls to do this or do that,
    We never demand things to other ..

    All we expect/order/demand is only with our girl, our sweet dream girl… May be its another way of showing love.. may be a hard way but still its true love… just to be understood that “too much of anything is good for nothing”… so male gender should know their limits…

  • smita said:

    so true..

  • Anirban said:

    Simply Excellent!!!!!!!!!!

    I just want somthing like it in the morning…. its great…..

  • Pinki said:

    Absolutely true n excellent ……………
    thanks a lot

  • Siddharth said:

    Shafnath i agree with you ..

  • Mayank said:

    Awsomw wording with excellent message…..

  • SATISH said:

    Excellent Shafath !!

  • balagei said:

    Hi Pravs,

    U are doing a gr8 job pravs!!!
    I have seen lot many sites on web……
    But at a point of time they’ll make it commercial….
    u have been really doing a selfless service……
    and we trust u ll do this in the future also…… :)
    thanks a tom pravs……
    and don hesitate to ask us when u need some help……
    may u have ll the blessings from god!!!!! :)

  • Koel Mukherjee said:

    Very True, LOVE is Independent and Unique, it is one of its kind….something that cannot be judged or measured. Those whose love is reciprocated should consider themselves really lucky :-)

  • vikram gahlot said:

    love is the gift of god .my thinking is very great the is the most beautiful thing in this world.my name is vikram gahlot

  • Meera Trivedi said:

    Being in love does not mean loosing my own individuality. My own dreams, my ownself. When these things come under the control then we do not care of the love.

    Love is just to give you can not demand it. The moment you are little bit hesitent you will get great bad responce from other side.

    As I always said others children are just to love nothing else. The moment will you tru to deceplent them they will with their parents make your life hell.

  • Violette younes said:

    Very true

  • Raj said:

    Right message at the right time… thanks.

  • beba said:

    very true : )

  • sepehr said:

    some words can change minds , when a mind changed it can change a life, you can do this.
    thanks for your nice words

  • Robert Otieno said:

    I think this is a very good advice, people stumble bfore they fall in love and wonder what went wrong, but this is the answer to all the questions that follow,WHAT DID I DO?

  • Nishchal Attri said:

    But why a man falls in love to a lady only with beautiful face?
    or a girl to a wealthy good looking guy?

  • Rakesh Kumar said:

    LOVE stand for Lost Of Valuable Energy :)

  • Cyrus said:

    Thanks a zillion Pravs!!!!! This message rings truer with ever line..

    Lesson Learned.

  • Feb.1987 said:

    “Give, but don’t expect. Advise, but don’t order.
    Ask, but never demand.”

    nice …

  • SAMANNAZ said:

    THANKS.I agree with lisa.

  • Edward Podile said:

    Hi there! you know what? love is two ways road.when i give receive but you must also give back to me, and that is what we call love. i mean the real love.and again we put ourselves into wrong relanships because we are going for material things than love.and eventually we get hurt of what we find in that relanship.

  • shelka said:

    true words……..

  • Zana said:

    everything said is very true…

    love is the most valuable and priced commodity. love can not be quantified in any measure, that’s why we say we cannot measure love.

    you cannot say you love someone this much or that much…you only love someone or you don’t love them at all.

    because it is the most valuable commodity…the more you’re willing to take or give love, the more price you have to pay. the question is…are we willing to pay that much price.

    our answer to love is;

    THOUGH IS SPEAK WITH THE TONGUES OF MEN AND OF ANGELS, BUT HAVE NOT LOVE, I HAVE BECOME SOUNDING BRASS OR A CLANGING CYMBAL.

    AND THOUGH I HAVE THE GIFT OF PROPHESY, AND UNDERSTAND ALL MYSTERIES AND ALL KNOWLEDGE, AND THOUGH I HAVE ALL FAITH, SO THAT I COULD REMOVE MOUNTAINS BUT HAVE NOT LOVE, I AM NOTHING.

    LOVE SUFFERS LONG AND IS KIND; LOVE DOES NOT ENVY; LOVE DOES NOT PARADE ITSELF, IS NOT PUFFED UP; DOES NOT BEHAVE RUDELY, DOES NOT SEEK ITS OWN, IS NOT PROVOKED, THINKS NO EVIL;

    LOVE DOES NOT REJOICE IN LIES, BUT REJOICES IN TRUTH; LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS.

    LOVE NEVER FAILS. WHAT FAILS IS LUST.

    Love lasts, for as long as it is not Lust.

    Let us give love never expecting to receive…loving unconditionally…

    Remember; a person’s love is not measured by how much that person receives but how much that person gives love.

  • ketki said:

    yes, very true.
    i think i am doing this mistake. i am becoming possessive about my partner. This should not happen. i will try to improve. Thank you very much

  • VM said:

    Hi Pravs - good work.

    THE ONE THING WE DON NOT GET IS LOVE.
    & THE ONE THING WE CANNOT GIVE ENOUGH IS LOVE !

  • Kimmixchin69 said:

    “PURE LOVE spells Sacrifices, but True happiness in the act of Giving your All, even your Life for your Loved One… UNCONDITIONALLY.

  • Daya said:

    I dont know why I am not able to agree this.

  • akilah said:

    i needed to read this today but its hard for me to “open my hand” because i’m afraid love will evaporate.

  • Naveen kumar said:

    Very True very Very True

    ***SHAFATH** you are 100% correct. Hope she never understood ur innervoice

  • Vuzzy said:

    guys you said it all

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